Just go for it! Although he may want to also fuck you.... I most certainly would!

 

I 100% agree with Kimiko here. It would be really difficult to resist this kind of urgency.

 

Expect some type of STD. Don't expect your relationship to grow. I fear you will never know true love.

This is a free country.

 

I feel sorry for you that you are so closed minded.

'Free love' may have meant STDs in the days of Shelly and Lord Byron but today we are better educated (atleast we have to facilities to be) and have two inventions called condoms and screening.

 

I suggest that if he reacts badly, you give it to me!

 

ROFL,

The advocate for abstinence said there have been cases in which individuals have contracted HIV from their partners despite using condoms. He referred to recent surveys which revealed that despite one partner being positive and the other partner being negative, the negative partner contracted the virus while using condoms.

*not_secure_link*sunstkittsonline.c...s-not-totally-safe-hiv-activist-cautions.html

*not_secure_link*www.leaderu.com/orgs/probe/docs/safesex.html

You claim to be informed.....

Originally Posted by SWBarbie

"Now, I'm having a dinner party on Saturday and I think this might be the opportunity I've been waiting for, but I'm not sure how to bring it up in a way that will sound serious enough that he doesn't just pass over it but i can brush it off on the off chance he reacts badly."

so....you plan on having him screened right lol

 

openminded

i feel that if you two arre ok with it. than it is ok. just tell the other guy that is what you want to do and that if know ypur boyfriend let him know he is ok with it. and that ya'll have already talked about it.

 

you'll be the best friend he's ever had.

 

Why would you feel sorry for twofeathers? Because he speaks the truth? Do you plan to check out he has been screened and do you plan to suck him off while he wears a condom? I wouldn't imagine either of those scenarios will happen.

*HO*

 

I am impressed that the two of you were able to talk about that. It say a lot about the strength of your RL and the amount of trust you finance has in you.
Hope things work out.

It's hard to find a good reason to turn down a BJ from a cute girl. You should have no problem living out this fantasy.

 

If you and your fiancee have the kind of relationship that lets you do things like that (and more power to you), and if you aren't worried about damaging the friendship, just go for it. Like somebody else said, most men don't react badly to being offered a blowjob.

 

Even married men.

 

That would make tonight the night. I'm sure there are several people here waiting to find out what happened. Be sue to let us know.

 

Send the dude an email ahead of time or a text or something, tell him that you'll suck his dick on Saturday.

 

Well, as a virgin my self, *frowns* if i were offered a blowjob, I'd be all for it. but if he has a girlfriend, I'd say seek her approval and/ or have her and your boyfriend talk and have the four of ya'll consider a foursome or swinging
Or, if he is gay/ bi and has a boyfriend who is also gay/bi, offer them both blowjobs.

either way, there's a very minimal chance of rejection if you are direct enough about it.

 

To answer for Barbie since she can't come on here much at the moment, it didn't happen because the guy told us all on the night how he's trying to win the heart of one of our other friends, and so she didn't want to risk messing with his head.

And to those who have implied I don't care for agreeing to let her do this, you really have no idea how wrong you are. Barbie is my whole world

 

Barbie and Videri

I think that is so huge of you and I wish "I" could get "that" lucky....
I NEED ONE! lol

I agree with you Videri, if you two are open and find these things fun and exciting. GO FOR IT! Who cares what others think. The only thing that matters is what you two, as a couple, thinks. :excited:

 

just say blowjob, he'll be cool with it

 

Get him and your boyfriend to go with you, then start giving your bf a blowjob and open his pants too, so you get 2 cocks to suck, maybe your boyfriend wants more and you can suck your friend while your boyfriend fucks you ... you should talk to your boyfriend that it might happen that more then just a blowjob might happen and have condoms ready in case more happens, always include your boyfriend , if the relationship is healthy it will work out. who knows maybe you get lucky and get 2 guys in bed with you i do like that ...

love trinity

yes i know i am a perv, but allowed is what is fun for everyone